18.How often do you let other people's nonsense(胡說) change your mood?Do you let a bad driver,impolite waiter,rude boss,or an insensitive employee ruin your day? One day I was in a taxi and we headed for the airport.We were driving when suddenly a black car drove out of a parking space r(1)
in front of us.My taxi driver slammed on his brake,slide sideways,and at the very last moment our car stopped and missed the other car by just inches!The driver of the other car looked around and started shouting at us. My taxi driver just smiled and waved at the guy.And I mean he was really f(2)
.So I asked,"Why did you just do that?This guy almost ruined your car and sent us to the hospital!"This is my taxi driver taught me what I now call "The Law of the Garbage Truck(垃圾車)". He e(3)
that many people are like garbage trucks.They run around full of garbage,full of frustration,full of anger,and full of disappointment.As their garbage piles up,they need a place to dump it and sometimes they'll dump it on you.Don't take it personally:Just smile,wave,wish them well,and move on. Believe me.You'll be happier.Don't take their garbage and s(4)
it to other people at work,at home,or on the streets.Life's too short to wake up in the morning with regrets.The mark of your success is how quickly you can refocus on what's i(5)
in your life.Roy Baumeister,a psychology researcher from Florida State University,found in his r(6)
that you remember bad things more often than good things in your life.You store the bad memories more easily,and you recall them more frequently. So,Love the people who treat you right.Ignore the o(7)
who don't.Life is ten percent what you make it and ninety percent how you take it!